Why Would You Keep Having Children In Such A Scary World?

After writing an article last week where I compared Obama to Hitler, I was asked an intriguing question:
"If you truly believe our country is going the same direction, why are you having more children?
The questioner went on to say that if she believed the future for her children was going to be so awful, the kindest thing she could do is not have any more. In many ways this comment is spot on. I'm no prophet, but excepting Christ's return, our children have a very bleak future ahead of them.

They will grow up in the most godless state their country has ever been in; they will inherit a debt load that will enslave them to the government through astronomical taxes for their entire lives; there will be too few of them to adequately support the health-care of the dying Baby Boomer generation; they will live in a world where the murder of unborn babies and people who have "lost their dignity" is normal while the right to defend and protect their own families will be taken away; they will live in a country that somehow tolerates homosexuality and radical Islam while dismissing anything God's Word says as hate speech.



At first glance, it's easy to understand why one would take action to prevent any of their own children to be born into a society that's "going to hell in a hand-basket."

However, there have been many times in history where God's people had an equally good excuse not to procreate. The persecution of Christians under King Nero, The Protestant Church in France during the 17th and 18th centuries, World War I and II, The Great Depression - these are periods in history where it was much harder to be a Christian compared to the relative freedom we enjoy now.

Take the story of Moses for example. If ever there was a time in history where it could be considered completely irresponsible and irrational to have children, this was it. 400 years of slavery to the Egyptians under some of the cruelest conditions imaginable - who could blame the Israelites if they decided that surely God didn't mean for them to keep bringing children into such a terrible world! "Be fruitful and multiply" must have been meant for periods of peace and prosperity.

Not only did the Israelites obey during their frightful circumstances, but the more they were persecuted and afflicted, the more they multiplied! Pharaoh's attempt to rid himself of the Israelite nation by literally working them into the ground was met with supernatural fertility among the people of God (Exodus 1:12).

To combat the influx in birth rates, Pharaoh ordered the midwives to kill the male children as they were being born to mothers still on their birth stools (Does this ring a bell? Sound anything like the partial birth abortions Obama is in favor of?). Again, God gave His people exceptional labors and deliveries so that the midwives, when asked why they let the male children live, had to explain, "Because the Hebrew women are not like the Egyptian women; for they are lively and give birth before the midwives come to them (Exodus 1:19)."

We know how the rest of the story goes. Eventually Moses was born to lead God's people out of slavery to the Promised land, flowing with milk and honey. Through times of bondage and affliction, trials and persecution, God faithfully provided and the Israelites continued to multiply. Who are we to assign limits or terms to God's commands just because money is tight, impending judgment is on our country, or the survival of the nuclear family seems impossible?

No matter what circumstance we find ourselves in, we ought to obey God rather than man (Acts 5:29). The second we think, "You've got to use your head. God gave you a brain for a reason," and rely on our own understanding instead of acknowledging God to direct our paths, we dismiss God's unchanging faithfulness, compassionate mercy, and amazing grace for a humanistic, self-absorbed agenda that makes the devil dance.

Satan hates it when God's people multiply! What a sinking feeling it would be to witness the birth of a covenant child into a family who serves the Lord and relies on His saving grace when your mission is to rob God of His glory by destroying His people! Christians have every reason to "be fruitful and multiply" because it is the nature of our God to bless the future generations of righteous parents who diligently teach His ways to their children (Psalm 14:5; Proverbs 20:7; Isaiah 44:1-3).

Neither a balanced budget, nor a heterosexual nation will be able to save the souls of our children. I can't save them, homeschooling can't save them, church can't save them. I'm not worried about bringing babies into our world because the One who has the power to deliver them from eternal death, also has the power to raise up Moseses, Billy Grahams, preachers of righteousness, godly mothers, and Presidents who fear the Lord. I have no reason to doubt His timing, grace, mercy, or faithfulness. The children who are born to us, are born "for such a time as this (Esther 4:14)."

27 comments:

  1. I remember my husband saying to me, sometimes I feel sick to my stomach knowing our son is going to grow up in such an awful world and I don't want to put that on any other children. I didn't know what to say, it was a time before we both came to Christ so I am not sure how he feels about it now. Tara.

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  2. Awesome! I think I am going to print this out and keep it in my notebook to read over again and again!

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  3. Amen! From a momma with 5 in my arms, 2 in my belly and 1 safe in the arms of Jesus.

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  4. Amen! From a momma with 5 in my arms, 2 in my belly and 1 safe in the arms of Jesus.

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  5. I would be lying to you if I told you I hadn't thought about this for myself. It seems so practical to stop having children when you take in the sights and the "end times". But, God is faithful and He is never changing. Thank you for writing this post. Beautiful job!

    myquiverfullfamily.blogspot.com

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  6. The question posed by the reader is one that has been on my mind a lot lately. I want to wait a few years to have children, but lately I've been wondering if I should at all. You've hit the nail on the head. This came at a wonderful time and has really eased my mind.

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  7. Very well said! I needed this very much right now! We want more children but our finances are about change drastically and I was nervous at the thought....but I know that God will provide.

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  8. I've wondered the same thing over and over the last few years. The hardest part for me is wondering if my precious babies will someday be lion food, or the equivalent. Thank you for writing this.

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  9. Wonderfully put. Have I mentioned lately that I Love your blog?! Love it!

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  10. Amen!! I too have been thinking of this as my husband and I think about if we want more children. We have 5 and one in heaven. WE have to trust that God is faithful and just and he has told us to be fruitful and multiply.

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  11. As our family grows we see the world slipping into more sin and I've wondered this before. But in our home, although it's busy, we have so much joy and the darkness of the world makes us look further unto Christ for redemption!

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  12. Thank you for this! I have thought about this before myself and I am going to have my fifth child in May. It is so true what you said and Jennifer and Natalie have hit the nail on the head of trusting God and how the children bring joy and draw you closer to Christ.

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  13. I love Acts 5:29. We see its contradiction way too much in our modern Christian culture! Thank you for putting this together.

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  14. If you get a chance, I'd love for you to read the 'about us' page on my blog http://www.mommytheteacher.com/p/about-us.html like most, I went through this 7 years ago and God delivered me before my first child was born. I do hope you find the time to read it. Great post! So glad that I visited.

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  15. Thank you for writing this, Jacinda. As Christians, it is never God's will for us to base our decisions upon fear. The world has always been a dark place and it will continue to grow darker until Jesus comes again.

    As a mother of four (with another due in April), I appreciate this article very much!

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  16. I have also thought about this. I believe we are in the end times. I have wondered if I should bother being a mother. I already struggle with the idea of possibly miscarrying again but the world around me makes the fear worse. It is a comfort reading this post and the responses of other Christian women who are aware of the times.

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  17. Thank you Jacinda. Believers need to stand strong together in faith not fear or complacency. Until His return the darkness will persist.

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  18. This is such a wonderful post on the blessings of being the Lord's! The Lord Jesus Christ is in control and we can rest in that! May God bless your family!

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  19. It's a struggle but I believe in the sovereignty of God and of His great love and mercy on His people. Without that faith, I probably would not have children.

    God bless you!

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  20. Thank you, thank you, thank you so much for this post! I am currently 29 weeks pregnant and have struggled with this since before he was conceived. We wanted another baby so badly and felt that God would bless us with one (and He did even when we reached a point where we thought we'd have to give up!) but from every side we were hearing "You shouldn't have another, you have enough already!" or "Why would you want to bring another child into this horrible world"...and on and on and on. And I would ask myself "Am I being a cruel mom by doing this? Am I damning them to things they don't deserve to face?" but over and over again I go back to God's promises. And I go back to the fact that the fewer Godly families we have, the worse our outlook is. It's our duty as children of God to raise up children "in the way that they should go" for His glory and to stand up for the things that this world tries so hard to trample down. Over and over again in the bible God blessed and used men and women for His glory in amazing ways when all around them the world was in turmoil. And I know that I will face the question again, should we have another? But I'm learning to rely on God's answer rather than my own. Which is all we should ever strive to do. It's hard sometimes because we don't want our children to suffer in any way but we have trust that God has a plan for each and every life He brings into this world and if we are faithful He will prove it!

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  21. You are SO right on! I shared some of these same examples to people when we were criticized for wanting more children after our third. If all believers took the stance that the world is getting too dark, there would be no godly offspring to make an impact for the future! This is an excellent post!

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  22. My sentiments exactly!
    Latisha
    confessionsofamartha.blogspot.com

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